I sometimes wonder what is that makes us happy? I guess, happiness comes from doing things, small or big, that you enjoy; creating or doing things that will benefit others; being able to drive your life; facing challenges and at times even failures. We often measure success by educational degrees, packages, wealth etc. But do these things really make a person happy? Happiness comes from the satisfaction of doing creative things. Instead of facing challenges, we are often over-protective in guarding against failures. Then, we live in the sorrow of lost opportunity.
Living a capitalist markets of money for labor, we have socialist aspirations of security and surety in life. Creativity has lost is place in our society. We study for scoring in exams, give exams for getting jobs, do jobs for earning money, earn money for raising family, raise family for making our kids do the same. The 'common man' in India has attained nirvana in being emotionless and indifferent. The common man is not supposed to have any ambitions or aspirations in life. The only aim of his life is to be in the rat-race so that he can lead a secure life. He surrenders to the belief that what happens is already decided. Yet, he wanders from temple to temple to magically change things in his life. He travels in a crowded train feeling all alone. He sweats with fear that, not having chanted the mantra today, will surely bring him bad luck. Looking at a huge crowd, he feels with so many people, he has no chance of making to his dreams. Compromise is way of his life. He works mechanically throughout his life.
Can we empower ourselves to enjoy our education, sports, work? Can we have more human than a mere mechanical life? Is it what will make us more happy?
Living a capitalist markets of money for labor, we have socialist aspirations of security and surety in life. Creativity has lost is place in our society. We study for scoring in exams, give exams for getting jobs, do jobs for earning money, earn money for raising family, raise family for making our kids do the same. The 'common man' in India has attained nirvana in being emotionless and indifferent. The common man is not supposed to have any ambitions or aspirations in life. The only aim of his life is to be in the rat-race so that he can lead a secure life. He surrenders to the belief that what happens is already decided. Yet, he wanders from temple to temple to magically change things in his life. He travels in a crowded train feeling all alone. He sweats with fear that, not having chanted the mantra today, will surely bring him bad luck. Looking at a huge crowd, he feels with so many people, he has no chance of making to his dreams. Compromise is way of his life. He works mechanically throughout his life.
Can we empower ourselves to enjoy our education, sports, work? Can we have more human than a mere mechanical life? Is it what will make us more happy?
1 comment:
Well said Sourabh! Living life so well defined at every step is living like a robot, programmed to do everything at a fixed time. We are not robots. But having said that doing something different/unconventional requires a lot of courage. An apt quote from the Alchemist says it all "courage is the language of the universe". We need to live consciously and think and evaluate where we are heading towards and if that is what will make us really happy... Another quote from the legend Steve Jobs: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.”
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